Being the Change for Peace

Abby’s Peace Corps Adventure

“We’re Adults… when did that happen? And how do we make it stop?”—Grey’s Anatomy Card July 18, 2008

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Well, after last weekend’s wedding extravaganza and spending time with some of the best friends in the world (in Flint and Mount Pleasant) I have finally had some time to process everything. I am moving to Turkmenistan. As my dearest friend Molly put it in the card she gave me “This sounds like a TV show—Who moves to Turkmenistan in real life?” I guess the answer to that question is I do. It’s crazy. I am actually becoming a hippie as opposed to just posing as one! I’m serious my Mom went shopping for extra long skirts for me just yesterday (who’s having a hard time envisioning me wearing a long skirt everyday because I know I am…). It’s a bit bazaar… I mean I’m doing something with my life, yes, I could do that without moving to Turkmenistan, but this feels right. I’ve done a bit more research about the country through some other PC blogs and their experiences are pretty cool and exciting. I’ve been taking careful note of the TEFL blogs and some of the stories are just cool… It sounds like the kids have this thirst for learning English and everything about America. I’ve also got to meet a few of my travel partners headed to Turkmenistan and a few who are already there (gotta love facebook). They are all really cool people, we’re all in the same nervous and excited boat trying to figure everything out. It’s really happening!

I can’t help but be a bit honest with myself though; I’m scared. One of my biggest fears in life is loneliness. Not having my support system with me will be really hard, which is why I am so thankful so many of your are supporting me online. It will be challenging though, being all out on my own. I was discussing this a few days ago at like 2am during my excursion to Mt. Pleasant with my good friend Katie who had recently gone through a similar experience when she moved to Mexico for 6 months. She told me that the experience was at first very lonely (for like the first 3 months), but it wasn’t until the end of her trip that she decided to take the time that she felt lonely to turn to the bible and spend time with the Lord. That was her advice to me and while the challenge of loneliness appears to be overwhelming I am a bit excited to continue to develop my relationship with the Lord and rely on Him during my time of need.

So that’s a bit about where my thoughts are after processing a bit. I also want to thank everyone for their support through this site. It’s crazy to know that there are 247 people on facebook who are reading this, plus like about 40 more friends and family! That is awesome. Thank you all for your support and just a bit of a plug… I love comments. Every time I have a new email about a comment I get all giddy and excited. So please! Comment!

 

Feud with Fed-Ex Over July 10, 2008

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So after a very long week of waiting, stalking our local Fed-Ex guy, and being in a huge fight with him because he would not deliver my official invite for the Peace Corps with my country placement in it, my feud with Fed-Ex has ended. The Fed-Ex guy finally delivers. I am proud to say that on September 29, 2008 I will be leaving for the country of TURKMENISTAN to serve for 27 months as a Peace Corps Volunteer! While there I will be serving alongside a local English teacher to teach English to secondary students and will hopefully be improving the English department as a whole (but I won’t get my hopes up).

Now I know some of you might not know much about Turkmenistan (that’s ok I don’t really either). So here are a few facts about it that I have gathered from the Country Welcome Book:

  • Former part of the Soviet Union, which gained independence in 1991.
  • Language spoken: Turkmen & Russian
  • Country Borders: Iran, Afghanistan (Don’t worry I’ll be safe), Uzbekistan, and Caspian Sea
  • Capital: Ashgabat
  • Land Conditions: Desert like
  • Religions: Predominately Muslim, Greek Orthodox
  • Llamas? Sadly no pictures I can find show llamas in the area, but the do have camels which could be a close second on the cool animal front!

Here are some links if anyone else wants to look the country up:

https://www.cia.gov/library/publications/the-world-factbook/geos/tx.html

http://www.lonelyplanet.com/worldguide/turkmenistan/

Overall, I am feeling excited and nervous all at the same time. There are a lot of things that I need to get done before I leave which is always nerve wrecking, but exciting at the same time!

 

Central Asia July 4, 2008

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Hello Family, Friends, and whomever else might be reading this!

It has been a very long past few months through this Peace Corps selection process, but I am happy to say it is all over and I can now start answering questions about: “Where are you going?” “When are you leaving?” “What will you be doing?” I now have some answers and could not be happier that this news is coming to me on “Independence Day” a day where we as a Country celebrate our Independence, but now a day for me that will signify my own independence with life.

Before I get into the info that I know allow me to give you an update about the process that I’ve gone through over the past year to give you an idea about how I landed on Central Asia. First off, one thing many people ask me is “whatever made you decide to join the Peace Corps?” That is a very good question. This dream of mine came out of a combination of prayer and passion. Since entering college I have developed a passion for ideals of service and social justice. This must have been obvious to one of my good friends and mentors Cathy, from the beginning of my freshman year. One day Cathy, my Hall Director, left me a little note in my mailbox that had a quote from Ghandi on it that said “Be the Change You Wish to See in the World.” I found that quote to be very powerful and I decided to make that my life mantra, which is coincidently the inspiration for my blog title (it also helped me get a couple scholarships and service awards throughout college and was actually the focus of one of my peace corps essays, I’ld say it’s served me well).

Since receiving a bit of inspiration I decided to start living out the quote. I have taken numerous trips to various places and countries developing my passion for service and found I have never felt like I was serving my purpose in life then on those service trips, I knew that this passion for travel and service was something that wasn’t going away and I needed to follow it. Another important piece to this complicated puzzle that I would like to call my heart is a passion for culture. I have been very blessed to have people in my life who have experienced many different cultures and passed their experiences along to me instilling a passion for culture. I have friends and family who have filled my head with dreams about Japan, Guam, China, Ecuador, Mexico, Thailand, Poland, Korea, Kenya, Egypt, Zambia, Vietnam, and Brazil and hearing about all of these cultures I just wanted to learn more and more about the world and it’s people. All of this tied into my spiritual life because I knew that God desires His people to show love and compassion to all of the people in the world. All of these conditions led me to pursue a degree in Social Work where I had some amazing professors and mentors help me to fan the flames of these passions and they encouraged me to follow my passion of social service to the world.

So all of these things combined together led me to look at the Peace Corps. A friend from high school introduced the idea to me one night randomly before we graduated. Remembering our conversation I decided to check it out. I learned that the Peace Corps was all about being an Ambassador to the world through service. It was about promoting peace, go figure! And I felt like it was something that I might want to consider. So I prayed about it… a lot. I was worried about whether or not this was something God desired for my life and every time I prayed I found more verses in the Bible about peace and social justice and knew that this was something that I needed to do. It also helped that for the past 2 service trips I took I just so happened to meet 2 people randomly (or divinely) who were also joining the Peace Corps (one leaving in less that 21 days for Bulgaria).

So after a lot of prayer and thought, I applied. It took me about 2 months to actually finish the application, but I did it and I had an interview with the office. After the interview I was told I was “the perfect Peace Corps Candidate” and I received a nomination in October 2007 (the first step in the process) for the S. Pacific Island Region to do work with Community Development scheduled to leave in August 2008. That was pretty cool because all I knew about the S. Pacific was that it was all about tropical islands, can’t complain there! But I knew I would take anything. So my next step was to get all of my medical and dental information done. After many doctors visits, having so much blood drawn my arm started to look like a heroin addict, and tears of having a bad horrible dental history be brought to life again I finally got everything done and on June 4th 2008 I received medical clearance with the contingency that I turned in one more piece of medical info for my file and began the placement process. After being interviewed by a Placement Officer I was informed that I was going to receive an invite for the Eastern Caribbean doing Community Development, thousands of miles away from my original placement.

So I waited. After about a month of complications with various things in the Placement and Medical offices I learned that my placement site would not be available and a new placement would be found for me, but I could have to wait for another 9 months before I left. This was very devastating, but after a lot of prayer, encouragement from family and friends, and a very helpful placement officer, I was given another interview for a Teaching English as a Foreign Language placement that was scheduled to leave in September. So yesterday I had an interview with another placement officer and we talked about the experiences that I had had with tutoring through my social work internship with the Saginaw Family Court and my social work tutoring that I did 2 semesters ago. Apparently, all you need to do to teach according to the Peace Corps is explain a few concepts to a few people and my tutoring experiences were enough to secure an invite for the Central Asia region, another few thousand miles away from my original placements, and a cultural region that I know NOTHING about. And that I must say is probably the most exciting thing about this new placement. I know that I will be going to a majority Muslim country full of beautiful countrysides and lots of llamas and I honestly couldn’t be more happy about it! I could however deal without the cold winters.

So now back to those questions!

1) Where are you going? Central Asia… probably somewhere like Turkmenistan, Azerbaijan, or Kazakhstan (yes where Borat is from). I’ll know for sure on Monday.

2) When are you leaving? Probably late September

3) What will you be doing? Teaching English to high school students, assisting in an after school program or doing some other form of community development, probably learning Russian, experiencing another culture, and just generally showing love and compassion to the people around me.

So there you have it! I’m basically excited and nervous all at the same time, but most of all I am just overjoyed that I am finally moving somewhere in this process. Overall, I have a VERY exciting journey ahead of me and can’t wait to share it all with you!